The Christian Formation of Character
1.Our temperament is often a burden to ourselves and can at times be
the source of annoyance to others. If we do nothing about it, it can be
the cause of failings or of extremes of behaviour on our part which we
bitterly regret afterwards. It is necessary, therefore, to form
character in accordance with Christian principles. We are in no danger
of losing our individuality by training
our character in this way. God's grace does not change nature, but
elevates and improves it. It is like a shoot which we plant in the
uncultivated soil of our own being. The first fruits may be sour, but
after a while they grow sweeter, while still preserving the essential
taste and aroma of the mother-plant. St. Jerome was a headstrong and
austere character, and he continued to be so even after the grace of God
had transformed him and made him holy. But his rugged nature was at the
same time softened and strengthened by divine grace. St. Augustine had a
great intellect and a great heart. When he abandoned philosophical
sophistry and worldly vanity in order to dedicate these gifts to the
service of God, he achieved a profundity of thought never before
attained by Christian wisdom. We should behave in the same manner. If we
are hot-tempered, we should convert this tendency to anger into hatred
for sin. If we are enthusiastic by nature, we should turn our enthusiasm
into love for God and for our neighbour. If we are high-spirited and
energetic, we should devote ourselves to good works for our own
salvation and to the apostolate for souls. How far have we advanced in
the Christian transformation of our character? Let us examine our
progress and resolve to do better.
2. St. Francis de Sales
writes as follows with his usual simplicity: "A way has been found of
making bitter almonds sweet, by puncturing them at the bottom and
squeezing out the juice. Why cannot we eject our evil inclinations in
order to make ourselves better? There is nobody so good by nature that a
bad habit could not altogether corrupt him. Similarly, there is nobody
so bad by nature that he could not be trained in goodness by the grace
of God and his own perseverance." St. Francis de Sales did not teach
this in theory only, but he put his advice into practice to a heroic
degree in his own life. He was endowed by nature with a vigorous and
resentful disposition, and he became an angel of gentleness and
affability. From his youth he was aware of the defects in his character.
He himself admitted that he struggled against them for twenty-two years
with God's help. He reached the point where he was able to remain
silent when he was insulted and to refrain from defending himself when
he was slandered, for he had acquired an inward peace and a remarkable
calmness of manner. This gentleness of character enabled him to convert
over seventy thousand heretics, to win back hardened sinners to Jesus
Christ, and to set countless souls on fire with the love of God. We have
a great deal to learn from him.
3. When Jesus offered Himself
as our Divine Model, He used these words: “Learn from me, for I am meek
and humble of heart.” (Mt. 11:29) Humility and gentleness are essential
attributes of the Christian character. Whoever does not succeed in
acquiring them is building upon sand. He will be a torment to others as
well as to himself. Jesus indicates this also, for after He has said:
“Learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart,” He adds: “and you
will find rest for your souls.” (Ibid.) In other words, He tells us that
it is only on this condition that we shall find spiritual peace. When
we have modelled our character on His humility and gentleness, we shall
be inflamed with the love of God and of our neighbour. Only then shall
we have succeeded in acquiring a character which is genuinely and deeply
Christian.
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